It rained today!  Yes....it's June 18th and it rained (and was very cold....60 degrees F).  This is my kid having a blast in the mud.

I am getting very tired of the rain.  We planted a bunch of heat loving plants this last week.  If we don't get some heat soon they will perish.

Woo Hoo....it's hot

Finally!

Summer looks like it might be making an entrance in the Pacific Northwest!  It's time to plant some seeds in the ground.  The growing season here is too darn short and I need to take advantage of every moment.  This year (if things go as planned) I will be planting some seeds with my daughter and letting her take care of the watering.  So far she has enjoyed digging in my garden and trampling in my strawberries.  So we will just see how this goes.  I've kept a few of the clam shells that were left over from strawberries and grapes we bought at the store.  A number of years ago I saw on a local gardening show that you can use the clam shells as mini-greenhouses.  It works great!!  I am considering some herbs to put in my daughter's little mini-greenhouse.  We have Dill, Parsley, Basil, Nasturtium, Chives, and Borage.  All of which, I have no doubt, will go wild in my yard and take over.  Engulfing my house!  Alas, I jest.  My garden is a constant challenge; one which I don't feel that I have the proper skills to manage.  My favorite book to pull out and read this time of the year is "Slug Tossing and Other Adventures of a Reluctant Gardener" by Meg Descamp.  The stories are funny as Meg Descamp recounts her gardening successes and failures in her Pacific Northwest garden.












I am a sun lover.  Born and raised in Southern California, my body delights in the sunny weather.  I miss So Cal very much, especially the beaches.  From my apartment growing up, we could see the fireworks from Disneyland.  There is no way that I could afford to move back there; in the meantime I am trying to convert Oregon into a mini-So Cal.

Basic Human Rights

This is a compilation from the following sources:

Your Perfect Right by R.E. Alberti & M.C. Emmons
Don't Say Yes When You Want to Say No by H Fensterheim & J. Baer
When I say No I feel Guilty by M. Smith

All humans have:
1.  The right to be yourself
2.  The right to spontaneously and honestly express your feelings, thoughts, and opinions and exercise your own rights without denying the rights of others.
     a.  The right to do anything as long as it does not hurt someone else.
     b.  The right to maintain your dignity by being properly assertive -- even if it hurts someone else --  as long as your
          motive is assertive and not aggressive.
     c.  The right to make requests of another person as long as you realize the other person has the right to say no.
3.  The right to judge your own behavior, thoughts, and emotions, and to take responsibility for their initiation and consequences upon yourself.
      a.  The right to offer no reasons or justifications for your behavior.
      b.  The right to change your mind.
      c.  The right to make mistakes and take responsibility for them.
      d.  The right to say "I don't know" or "I don't understand".
      e.  The right to make decisions for yourself whether logical or illogical.
      f.  The right to defend yourself, to keep people from taking what is yours, to stand up for your rights.
4.  The following are rights specific to more intimate interpersonal relationships:
      a.  The right to grow.
      b.  The right to love, be loved, and be accepted as a person in spite of "unacceptable" behavior.
      c.  The right to privacy.
      d.  The right to be trusted.
      e.  The right to be respected as long as you respect others.
      f.  The right to your own self-defined happiness.

My Maternal Grandmother has Deep roots in New Mexico

New Mexico Facts and Trivia

Santa Fe is the highest capital city in the United States at 7,000 feet above sea level

The province that was once Spanish New Mexico included all of present day New Mexico, most of Colorado and Arizona, and slices of Utah, Texas, Oklahoma, Kansas and Wyoming. The Original American Territory of New Mexico that congress created in 1850 included all of New Mexico and Arizona plus parts of Colorado, Nevada, and Utah. The boundaries of present day New Mexico were drawn by congress in 1863 but New Mexico didn't become a state until 1912.

Each October Albuquerque hosts the world's largest international hot air balloon fiesta.

Las Cruces makes the world's largest enchilada the first weekend in October at the "Whole Enchilada Fiesta".
 

Lakes and Rivers make up only .002% of the state's total surface area. The lowest water-to-land ratio of all 50 states. Most of New Mexico's lakes are man-made reservoirs. A dam on the Rio Grande formed the Elephant Butte Reservoir the state's largest lake.
 

The Rio Grande is New Mexico's longest river and runs the entire length of New Mexico.
 

The world's first Atomic Bomb was detonated on July 16, 1945 on the White Sands Testing Range near Alamogordo. North of the impact point a small placard marks the area known as Trinity Site. The bomb was designed and manufactured in Los Alamos.
 

White Sands National Monument is a desert, not of sand, but of gleaming white gypsum crystals.
 

Hatch is known as the "Green Chile capital of the world".
 

New Mexico is home of Philmont Scout Ranch located in Cimarron.
 

Grants was at one time known as the "Carrot capital of the country" until the process of cellophane wrapping began and California took over title. More recently Grants has been known as the "Uranium capital of the world" and produced the bulk of the nation's uranium supply during the post-World War II and Cold War era.
 

New Mexico is one of the four corner states. Bordering at the same point with Colorado, Utah and Arizona.
 

The Palace of Governors in Santa Fe, built in 1610, is one of the oldest public buildings in America.
 

More than 25,000 Anasazi sites have been identified in New Mexico by archeologists. The Anasazi, an amazing civilization who were the ancestors of the Pueblo, where around for 1300 years. Their great classical period lasted from 1100-1300 AD.
 

The state of New Mexico shares an international border with the country of Mexico.
 

The leaves of the Yucca, New Mexico's state flower, can be used to make rope, baskets and sandals.
 

1/4 of New Mexico is forested, and the state has 7 National Forests including the Nation's largest, the 3.3 million acre Gila National Forest which includes the Gila Wilderness.
 

The largest fire in the state's history was ignited on May 4, 2000 in the National Park Service's Bandelier National Monument, when a controlled burn meant to clear away dry brush and prevent future wild fires leaped out of control due to high winds. 25,000 people, including all the residents of Los Alamos, were forced to evacuate their homes.
 

In 1950 the little cub that was to become the National Fire Safety symbol Smokey the Bear was found trapped in a tree when his home in Lincoln National Forest was destroyed by fire. In 1963, in Smokey's honor, the New Mexican legislature chose the black bear to be the official state animal.
 

The word "Pueblo" is used to describe a group of people, a town, or an architectural style. There are 19 Pueblo groups that speak 4 distinct languages. The Pueblo people of the southwest have lived in the same location longer than any other culture in the Nation.
 

The Navajo, the Nation's largest Native American Group, have a reservation that covers 14 million Acres.
 

To a certain degree New Mexico's Indian Reservations function as states within a state where tribal law may supersede state law.

New Mexico's State Constitution officially states that New Mexico is a bilingual State, and 1 out of 3 families in New Mexico speak Spanish at home.
 

In some isolated villages, such as Truchas, Chimayo', and Coyote in north-central New Mexico, some descendants of Spanish conquistadors still speak a form of 16th century Spanish used no where else in the world today.
 

The Palace of Governors in Santa Fe is the oldest Government Building in the United States.
 

At Lake Valley, miners discovered silver in veins so pure that the metal could be sawn off in blocks, instead of having to be dug out by traditional methods.
 

The father of modern rocketry Massachusetts scientist Robert Goddard whom some called a crackpot, came to New Mexico in 1930 to test rocket-ship models. From those humble beginnings the aerospace industry became one of New Mexico's leading industries.
 

To test the latest rockets White Sands Missile Range was created on the same land where the first atom bomb had been exploded.
 

After WWII Los Alamos and Albuquerque had many new laboratories. Hundreds of highly educated Scientists and Engineers moved in the state. New Mexico soon had a higher percentage of people with Ph.D.s than any other state.
 

1 out of 4 workers in New Mexico work directly for the Federal Government. State and local governments are also major employers.
 

Public education was almost non-existent in New Mexico until the end of the 19th century. As late as 1888 there was not a single public college or high school in the entire territory.
 

Two important aspects of New Mexico's economy are scientific research such as the nuclear energy research carried out at Sandia National Laboratories and mining of natural resources such as oil, natural gas, uranium, potash, copper, coal, zinc, gold and silver.
 

New Mexico has far more sheep and cattle than people. There are only about 12 people per square mile.
 

Since New Mexico's climate is so dry 3/4 of the roads are left unpaved. The roads don't wash away.
 

During the height of the so-called lawless era of the late 1800' when Lew Wallace served as territorial Governor, he wrote the popular historical novel Ben-Hur. First published in 1880, it was made into a movie in 1959 starring Charleton Heston.
 

Saint Paul's United Methodist church in Las Cruces has 7 bell choirs.
 

The world famous Santa Fe Opera has an open-air (outdoor) theater situated dramatically outside of the capital city in the foothills of the Sangre de Christo Mountains.
 

The town of Deming is known for its annual duck races.
 

Cimarron was once known as the "Cowboy capital of the world". Some of the old west's most famous names, such as Kit Carson and "Buffalo Bill" Cody lived there. A quote from the Las Vegas Gazette illustrates how lawless Cimarron was. "Everything is quiet in Cimarron. Nobody has been killed in 3 days."
 

Roswell the states 4th largest city was founded in 1869 when a professional gambler established a lone store on the cattle trail.
 

Moon Rocks can be found at the International Space hall of fame that is located in Alamogordo.
 

Tens of thousands of bats live in the Carlsbad Caverns. The largest chamber of Carlsbad Caverns is more than 10 football fields long and about 22 stories high.
 

Taos Pueblo is located 2 miles north of the city of Taos. It is one of the oldest continuously occupied communities in the United States. People still live in some of its 900 year old buildings.
 

New Mexico's largest city Albuquerque was founded in 1706 as a Spanish farming community. It was named after a province in Spain.
 

New Mexico's capital city Santa Fe is the ending point of the 800 mile Santa Fe Trail.
 

The City of Truth or Consequences was once called Hot Springs. In 1950 the town changed its name to the title of a popular radio quiz program.
 

The town of Gallup calls itself the "Indian Capital of the World" and serves as a trading center for more than 20 different Indian groups. Every August it is the site of the Inter-Tribal Indian Ceremonial
 

New Mexico was named by 16th century Spanish explorers who hoped to find gold and wealth equal to Mexico's Aztec treasures.
 

Native Americans have been living in New Mexico for some twenty thousand years. The Pueblo, Apache, Comanche, Navajo, and Ute peoples were in the New Mexico region when Spanish settlers arrived in the 1600s.
 

On the same desert grounds where today's space age missiles are tested, ten-thousand-year-old arrowheads have been found. New Mexican history has ranged from arrows to atoms and has embraced Indian, Spanish and Anglo cultures. Few states can claim such a distinctive past.

Thanks to: JP Dur, Crucesdale, Gary Harper, Derek Benjamin, Tom Bombaci, Jr., Darla Boyd, Beth Markley

http://www.50states.com/facts/newmex.htm

Amanda...

I remember the day we went to the hospital to have Amanda. It was a very blustery day, unpredictable type of weather. Very much like today was

My pregnancy had been relatively uneventful. Considering all we had gone through to have a full-term pregnancy that, in and of itself, is quite extraordinary. I had plenty of heartburn, morning-sickness that lasted the entire day and pregnancy. I was happy to have any and all "discomfort" because it meant my baby was doing her "thing" inside of me!

It was originally planned that I would be induced 10 days early but around WK 36 lil miss sunshine still had her cute little noggin stuck up under my right rib and she was happily kicking her feet on my bladder.

I was pretty disappointed as I had planned to have a birth doula assist in bringing our little girl into this world semi-naturally. The disappointment faded away to excitement as the now scheduled c-section was approaching. I had the best OB/GYN in the World (Dr. Mike Davis...props)! I knew we were in good hands.

We checked into Labor & Delivery and within minutes I was in a hospital gown being poked and prodded, joking with the nurses about my temperamental and very elusive veins. I got really excited when my wonderful doctor walked in the room to see how I was doing. He quietly walked over to the saline IV that was attached to my hand and gently pressed it to get the fluids into me....and the nurse scolding him for doing it. My L&D nurse was funny and made me laugh quite a bit. I wish that I had gotten her name!

The nurse walked me to the operating room, holding my IV like a wedding train. My doctor and about 100 people were waiting for us (okay...maybe not quite that many people but there were quite a few). They had music playing in the background. My doctor made a comment to one of the songs "that is perfect for today"....wish I could remember the name of the song that was playing when he said that.

Within minutes of going into the operating room we could hear the cries of our sweet little miss Amanda! Music to my ears (that will play very loudly over the coming months, years, etc). She was born on March 11, 2008 at 1:20pm (it was a Tuesday), she weighed 8 lbs 12 ozs. She has filled our days with so much joy...no wonder I love celebrating her birthday so very much!!

April 2010 our little girl was diagnosed with Polyarticulate Juvenile Idiopathic Arthritis which most of you know and have shared our struggle with. Amanda has bee such an inspiration to me this last year with all she has been through with this awful disease (and continues to struggle with). Her beautiful smile and sweet personality fill me with an incredible amount of joy! I am one very proud momma!!

Her name? Amanda Grace Elizabeth.....so many! We had the big book of baby names when we went to the hospital but none had been decided on definitively. I couldn't get the Barry Manilow song "Mandy" out of my head when the nurses were prepping me for the delivery....that's why Amanda. Grace, that's my Godmother's name. Elizabeth....totally random. Where did your name come from?

The First....

Yeah, I was here first!  That's what I'm thinking when my sweet 3 year old daughter says "that's my seat mommy"....  But I have got to be the adult, right?

Nobody said it was easy getting older!